Tips
1- You don´t have to keep repeating she is beautiful.
Probably she is tired of hearing that. A compliment is always nice, but there´s
always the right time. Some men mix up flirting and flatter. If you can only
act this way, improve your moves by widening your repertoire.
2 - Don´t look so available. Show some interest, but
pace yourself. I made a research for Playboy magazine in night clubs and bars
and we discovered women like men who are not at their backing call.
3 - Being shy can be really charming, as long as you
are not completely paralyzed. You can use that as a pro: the tip is not trying
to disguise it, try to pass for an outgoing guy. It seams artificial.
4 - If you don´t pay so much attention to her, she
might fall. Show your desire little by little. Even if you think she´s hot, don´t
let her know until you´re intimate.
5 - Show her you´re being honest, they appreciate it.
Women can be our greatest allies, but it only happens when we learn how to
express what we have inside, deep inside.
6 - Combine sensuality and friendship. The mixture
usually works. If you´re just a friend. Nice and comprehensive all the time,
you´ll end up as just friends. Have the courage to spice it up a bit, you can
do that by sexualizing conversation or contact.
7 - On the art of “conquest”, do not show up with just
a regular, old pick up line. They´re looking for an interesting, charming man
and you have to show that on the first contact. Remember you cannot
miraculously turn into one of those guys, so prepare yourself, study, read,
take care of your look.
8 - Never think some girl is out of your league. You
say who is or who is not on your league. It all depends on the concept you
have, on how you see yourself.
9 - In case you have the chance to get her number or
e-mail, just do it. If she is really something, it´s worth investing. You need
to “seal the deal”. Some men don´t want to delay and then regret it.
10 - Don´t be too eager, trying to get things done at
once. Enjoy every moment at her side. Most men are too objective and rational
when not only love but also sex can be a lot better when you just relax and
enjoy every second of the present moment.
