1. What’s more important: beauty, posture or conversation?
It’s all important when it comes to meeting someone. A handsome man has an advantage over someone who isn’t. But being handsome is not enough if you don’t have good posture and corporal expression. Being a good conversationalist counts a lot, principally because women love to talk. For this reason, pay attention to your looks, but don’t exaggerate. Take care of your posture and have interesting things to say. Don’t forget it’s also important to know how to listen.

2. Are concerns for standards of beauty and with the body among the main impediments to attracting someone?
Many people think that this is the main factor. That you have to be in great shape, use clothes by the best brands and have handsome features. Many men spend endless hours at the gym to achieve a perfect body. But this reveals insecurity. What’s most important is to be an admirable person and this is more related with a will to live than any other factor.

3. There are people who believe they are ugly and don’t believe that someone would be interested in them. How can they get over this?
First, they should change their perspective by placing more attention on their other qualities. Many men judge themselves poorly. They are not ugly, but see themselves that way.  One can do as much as one wants in terms of looks: plastic surgery, work out at a gym, a change of wardrobe, classes in corporal expression, but don’t be obsessed. It’s more important to accept yourself as you are, and recognize the good things you have to offer.

4. What are the body signs that indicate someone’s interest in another person?
You should know your body and expand your repertoire of expressions. The more you do this, the better you will be able to make a good reading of other people’s bodies. When it comes to meeting someone, this is essential. You must know what a women thinks of your approach. To do so, pay attention to her gestures, her posture and her attitude.

5. You said that our body changes when we begin to pay interest in someone. Can you say more about this?
When we are flirting, our body produces adrenalin. Our posture changes, our mood changes. All of this influences our health. I would even say that flirting is very good for our health.

6. Are there men who go after beautiful women to compensate for the fact they find themselves ugly?
Bingo! This is true. There are men who are completely fixated in finding a beautiful woman. They have many fantasies. It’s interesting that they don’t consider very important factors such as: is this beautiful woman interested in this guy? Or is this woman also intelligent and a good person? There’s nothing wrong with wanting a beautiful woman, as long as you are not hiding behind this quest a need for self-affirmation. Is it possible that you want to be as beautiful as her? Is it possible that you want to have her beauty? Think about it!