How to Conquer a Woman

This column will be part of a series to help you meet a woman boldly, effectively and with good taste. Today we are going to take the first step.

1- Prepare to conquer a woman

What do you really think of yourself?
If you intend to conquer a woman it is essential that you have a good sense of yourself. If you do not see yourself positively, you will not get anywhere. You will always feel like you have your tail between your legs.

How do you see yourself as a man?
When talking to a woman you need to feel that you have something to offer, that you are a man who has qualities and will please her in the broad sense.

With whom did you learn to be a man?
It may be that you were lucky enough to have a good father, a strong man, who was determined, who communicated well with women. In addition to your father, you may have had good male models such as uncles, grandfathers, neighbors and teachers. But, perhaps your models were weak or insufficient. If this is the case, it is probable that you have not developed good male self-esteem.
In this case, you will have to work with this issue to have a better image of yourself and feel more at ease when trying to get to know a woman.

Are you satisfied with yourself?
If you are a lazy guy, set in your ways and fearful, it is very likely that you are not satisfied with yourself. Many men give in to habits, are not able to earn money, don’t work in the field they want. This makes it difficult to conquer  an interesting woman.

How do you need to change?
Make a review of what is good in your life and what is not. For you to be a vital man, changes are essential. You can’t find a good woman if you don’t have a good attitude. Make a point of improving your life, choose the best, become a more interesting person.

What can you change and what can’t you change?
Keep your feet on the ground. Some things can be changed. For example, you may come to the conclusion that you are too fat and that your belly gets in the way when it comes to attracting women and even in sex. This is the type of thing that you can and should work on. But if you don’t like being short and want to get taller at any cost, you will suffer helplessly. This is not smart.

You want an interesting woman right? Are you an interesting man?
It’s important to regularly ask yourself this question. There are many men who want to date a beautiful and intelligent woman, as long as she is not very successful. Worse still, they don’t always have an interesting life. The relationship that they have with work, with the place that they live, the relationship they have with their own life, has much to be desired. So I ask: are you an interesting person?

Why would a woman like to be with you? What do you have this is good to offer her?
Conduct a review of everything that you have and do that is good. For example, you may have your own apartment, you may have financial stability, or you may be very creative or perhaps a deep person spiritually. You may kiss very well, or be affectionate, perhaps even good in bed. It is important that you know what you have to offer a woman. You can only win her over if you have self-confidence.

What are your talents?
It is not easy to discover your talents, but it is very important. We were educated to do everything like everyone else, like sheep in a flock. We don’t find the unique individual who we are. The more you know and discover what you have that is best to offer the world, the more shine and magnetism appears. When it comes to attracting a woman, this scores points.