When you kiss, you feel not only the taste of the saliva. You feel the other person´s soul! You realize who the person really is, you feel what she is done of, it is a parameter for affinity.

A good Kiss may mean lots of things. It means you two can be great in other things, too. It is an important moment in your love encounter. You can talk and have dinner and get to know her all you want, but the kiss changes it all. It is the beginning of a new phase. You give yourself to her and vice-versa, you mix.

Each of us sees the kisses in different ways. I know people who are capable of having sex without kissing, reserving the act for very special moments indeed. They only do it when they are in love with the person. Others see it as something uncompromising, some kiss a lot of different people and the act may be meaningless.

The truth is: kissing is one of the great things in life and that is exactly why we should do it well and be willing to do it. The ones who have never kissed are always expecting it to happen and I believe the only way of doing it well is practicing. There is no other way; there are no courses, no classes, no books which teach that.

Transform that into something special: you are talking, the chat is nice and you can feel it coming, you want to get closer, you want to hug her. Maybe there is a chance and you know you get it: you steal a kiss. When that happens, relax.

The thing is: the way you do it has to be compatible with the way your partner does it. By kissing her you realize if you want to take it further or if it is better to just go home and wait for someone else. Some people like it wet, some people prefer it drier. Some put their tongue in your mouth and can’t even consider removing it from there. There are those who have their mouths kind of hard, lacking coordination. You can feel her teeth and it´s weird! These kinds of kisses usually come from people who are rigid on their own personalities. Oh, and there´s also the kiss of the smokers, which taste of something you probably don´t like much. Singers, journalists and people who work with their voices are usually really good kissers, for they are flexible and know how to deal with their vocal cords and everything related to their mouths.

Anyway, there are loads of ways of doing it and when the time comes you can feel the connection you may have with that person by just kissing her. You see if it is something that will probably become a relationship or if it is just a one-night-stand.

You can start slowly, deeply feeling her lips, her teeth and her tongue. You can then slowly press harder and increase your rhythm. Relax and keep going, there aren´t rules. Close your eyes and enjoy it.

Feel all your body kissing hers, your chest kissing hers, your sex kissing hers... Breathe. Give her a kiss which lasts the eternity, but change the rhythm once in a while, explore a different repertoire. There is always a new way of doing it, especially because each person does it uniquely. Get all the heat you´re feeling and transform it into a deep, nice kiss.

Kiss with your eyes, also. Kiss her neck, behind her ears; kiss her eyes, her nose. It´s sublime! Leave your lips comfortable with hers and your tongues will slowly build their perfect dance. Each and every kiss may have the excitement of a first kiss. Your lips, your tongue and all the muscles involved should work together in order to improve your capacity of kissing even further.

The more you relax, the better it becomes. Kissing is great when you´re hot and the best one is the one you do it with your heart open, when you feel something for the person you have with you.