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Some situations oblige us using formalities, politeness and even self control. But when someone is after a specific somebody, nothing can stop it. Nothing will keep you apart from the person you want by your side. Nothing!

Women are truthful when it comes to love vows. Men may be different, once they follow their instinct and sometimes they might screw things up due to their male necessities. Women in love live in a bubble which is directly connected to her partner´s life. She wants to be ready for him when the phone rings, she wants to dress-up to impress, she wants to be perfect even when it comes to sex. And that shouldn´t be seen as trouble, but as gestures of someone who is always worried about making you happy. I bet you act the same when you love her truly.

Maybe the mistake is the beginning, when both are charmed and exchange vows which aren´t always practical, like things we promise when we´re hyper. Like wedding plans, baby names, the puppies you´re going to buy, your dream home... everything is shared. Yes, for you guys also make promises and dream awake. And you know what the problem is in some of these situations? Women believe you. And then the daily routine happens and things aren´t as shiny as they used to be and promises fly away with the weakest of the breezes. That´s when women become sour and transform into people you no longer want to be with.

Before saying things, just think for a while – because boy, women actually listen to what you´re saying and we usually don´t comprehend why you change your mind so quickly if you wanted to be with us forever just last week. 

We understand. Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, we say things we shouldn´t. But maybe, just maybe, we should keep it to ourselves until we realize that the feeling is actually strong and deep and truthful. As we sometimes say, “I love you” isn´t “good morning” and when two people are destined to be together, they will. Meaning: it´s not what you say that counts, but your attitudes.